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Perhaps the most helpful decision you can make is to develop the habit of being a pleasant, positive person. Refuse to criticize, condemn or complain. Do not engage in gossip or gripe sessions with your coworkers. Imagine that everything that you say at work will be repeated and published on the company bulletin board. Guard your tongue. Instead, look for something good to say about everyone. Always be cheerful and friendly. Be patient and easy going. Be polite and courteous. Be thoughtful and considerate. Be the kind of person that everyone likes to have working for them, or likes to work for or with. In our modern business world, it is always the people who are competent, capable, likable and pleasant who are paid the most and promoted the fastest. Make it a habit to look for the good in every person and situation, and to keep focused on helping other people, and adding value to your company. These habits will help you as much or more than anything else you could possibly do. On the other hand,the Bible says that ” when you are kind and good you nourish your soul,and when you are cruel you destroy your soul. When I look at my life,I only can say this. When I’m kind,nice and good to others-I’m the one who benefits most from it. Let me tel you why; you will feel good and more happier also you’ll be more productive .

Here are some action exercises that will help you to develop habits to become more positive  and  productive,

1. Always look for ways to say something nice, uplifting to a person that makes him feel good,because remember what I have said before,every time you say something nice to others,you yourself will feel better and happier,that’s how it works.

2. Use self talk,and remind yourself every time,that you want to be a nice,kind and easy going person that everyone wants to be around.  And then,look for opportunities to do that. May goodness and kindness be guides of your day.

3.  Develop the habit of working well with others; always be looking for ways to contribute, to help others to do their jobs better and faster.

4.  Determine what you find easy to learn and easy to do, and what you most enjoy doing at work; find a job doing more of that.
5.  Identify your unique talents and abilities, and dedicate yourself to becoming absolutely excellent in those areas.
6.  Work all the time you work; when you start earlier, work harder and stay later, you quickly separate yourself from all the others.
7. Get the job done fast! The faster you move, the more energy you have, the more you get done, and the faster you will be paid more and promoted to higher levels of responsibility.

“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.”
Eleanor Roosevelt

Never forget the person you want to become.