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What’s a declaration? It’s simply a positive statement that you make emphatically, out loud. Why are declarations such a valuable tool? Because everything is made of one thing: energy. All energy travels in frequencies and vibrations. Therefore, each declaration you make carries its own vibrational frequency. When you state a declaration aloud, its energy vibrates throughout the cells of your body, and by touching your body at the same time, you can feel its unique resonance. Declarations not only send a specific message to the universe, they also send a powerful message to your subconscious mind. The difference between a declaration and an affirmation is slight, but in my mind, powerful. The definition of an affirmation is “a positive statement asserting that a goal you wish to achieve is already happening.” The definition of a declaration is “to state an official intention to undertake a
particular course of action or adopt a particular status.”  An affirmation states that a goal is already happening. I’m not crazy about this because, often when we affirm something that is not yet real, the little voice in our head usually responds with “This isn’t true, this is BS.”  On the other hand, a declaration is not saying something is true, it’s stating that we have an intention of doing or being something. This is a position the little voice can buy, because we’re not stating it’s true right now, but again, it’s an intention for us in the future.  A declaration, by definition, is also official. It is a formal statement of energy into the universe and throughout your body.
Another word from the definition is important—action. You must take all the actions necessary to make your intention a reality.  I recommend that you state your declarations aloud each morning and each evening. Doing your declarations while looking into a mirror will accelerate the process even more. Now I have to admit that when I first heard of all this, I said, no way,this declaration stuff is far too hokey for me. But because I was broke at the time, I decided, what the heck, it can’t hurt, and started doing them. Now I’m rich, so it shouldn’t come as a big surprise that I believe that declarations really work. Either way, I’d rather be really hokey and really rich than
really cool and really broke. How about you? That said, I invite you to place your hand on your heart and repeat the following…
DECLARATION:
“My inner world creates my outer world.”
Now touch your head and say…
“I have everything what it takes to be successful and happy and no matter what my circumstances are or will be.”
So start declaring today and step into your new future tomorrow.

Here you will find the real enemies which stand between you and the place where  you want to be. Here you will find not only the symptoms indicating weakness of persistence, but also the deeply seated subconscious causes of this weakness. Study the listcarefully, and face yourself squarely if you really wish to know who you are,and what you are capable of doing.
These are the weaknesses which must be mastered  in order to be successful.

1. The habit of compromising with poverty instead of aiming at riches. General absence of ambition to be, to do, and to own.
2. Searching for all the short-cuts to riches, trying to get without giving a fair equivalent, usually reflected in the habit of gambling, endeavoring to drive “sharp” bargains.

3. Fear or criticism , failure to create plans and to put them into action, because of what other people will think, do, or say. This enemy is most damaging in our life’s, because it generally exists in our subconscious mind, where its presence is not recognized.

4. Weakness of desire, due to neglect in the choice of motives that impel action.

5. Willingness, even eagerness, to quit at the first sign of defeat.

6. Indecision, the habit of  passing the buck on all occasions, instead of facing issues and dealing with them.
7. The habit of relying upon alibis instead of creating definite plans for the solution of problems.
8. Self-satisfaction. There is but little remedy for this affliction, and no hope for those who suffer from it.
9. Indifference, usually reflected in our readiness to compromise on all occasions, rather than meet opposition and fight it.

10. Failure to recognize and to clearly define exactly what do you want.
11. Procrastination, with or without cause. (Usually backed up with excuses).
12. Lack of interest in acquiring specialized knowledge.

13. The habit of neglecting to move on ideas, or to grasp opportunity when it presents itself.
14. Wishing instead of willing.

15. The habit of blaming others for own mistakes, and accepting unfavorable circumstances as being unavoidable.

As we have finished series of articles on “PERSISTENCE”,now you are ready and fully equipped to fight your battles in your life and with persistence to come out of each battle as a winner. And remember  “The Best It Jet To Come”  Have A Great Day!

In this article as I have promised I will present eight factors that will help you to develop persistence. So,like all states of mind, persistence is based upon :
1. DEFINITENESS OF PURPOSE. Knowing what do you want is the first and, perhaps, the most important step toward the development of persistence.It will be a driving force that will help you  to overcome many difficulties.
2. DESIRE. It is comparatively easy to acquire and to maintain persistence in pursuing the object of intense desire.
3. SELF-BELIEF. Is very important as it will gives you the ability to carry out a plan which encourages you to follow the plan through with persistence.
4. DEFINITENESS OF PLANS. Organized plans, even though they may be weak and entirely impractical, encourage persistence.
5. ACCURATE KNOWLEDGE. Knowing that your plans are sound,which based upon experience or observation, encourages persistence,but guessing instead of knowing will destroy persistence.
6. CO-OPERATION. Sympathy, understanding, and harmonious cooperation with others tend to develop persistence.
7. WILL-POWER. It is the habit of concentrating your thoughts upon the building of plans for reaching your goal, leads to persistence.
8. HABIT. Persistence is the direct result of habit. The mind absorbs and becomes a part of the daily experiences upon which it feeds. Fear,is the worst of all enemies,but it can be effectively cured by forced repetition of courage.  Before leaving the subject of persistence, examine  yourself, and define in what particular, if any, you are lacking
in this essential quality.I believe that these eight persistence factors are the most important for achieving anything in our life’s. Measure yourself courageously, point by point, and see how  many of the eight factors of persistence you lack. So now you will be well equipped and have an understanding  what qualities do you need to have in order to develop persistence. And  as I always say,remember -The Best Is Jet To Come!   Have A Great Day!

I would like to continue on the subject of ” The Power of Persistence”.
There are exceptions to this rule; a few people know from experience the soundness of persistence. They are the ones who have not accepted defeat as being anything more than temporary. They are the ones whose desires are so persistently applied that defeat is finally changed into victory. We who stand on the side lines of Life see the overwhelmingly large number who go down in defeat, and never to rise again. We see the few who take the punishment of defeat as an urge to greater effort. These, fortunately, never learn to accept Life’s reverse gear. But what we don’t see, what most of us never suspect of existing, is the silent but irresistible power which comes to the rescue of those who fight on in the face of discouragement. If we speak of this power at all we call it PERSISTENCE, and let it go at that. One thing we all know, if you do not possess persistence, you will not achieve
a great success in any calling. I look up from my work, and see before me, less than a block away, the great mysterious “Broadway,” the “Graveyard of Dead Hopes,” and the “Front Porch of Opportunity.” From all over the world people have come to Broadway, seeking fame, fortune, power, love, or whatever it is that human beings call success. Once in a great while someone steps out from the long procession of seekers, and the world hears that another person has mastered Broadway. But Broadway is not easily nor quickly conquered. She acknowledges talent, recognizes genius,pays off in money, only after one has refused to QUIT.

Then we know he has discovered the secret of how to conquer Broadway. The secret is always inseparably attached to one word,persistence! The secret is told in the struggle of one woman, whose persistence conquered the Great White Way. She came to New York , to convert writing into riches. The conversion did not come quickly, but it came. For four years she has learned about the sidewalks of New York  from first hand experience. She spent her days laboring, and her nights hoping. When hope grew dim, she did not say, “Alright Broadway, you win!” She said, “Very well, Broadway, you may whip some, but not me. I’m going to force you to give up.” One publisher  sent her thirty six rejection slips, before she “broke the ice and got a story across. The average writer, like the “average” in other walks of life, would have given up the job when the first rejection slip came. She pounded the
pavements for four years to the tune of the publisher’s “NO,” because she was determined to win.

Then came the payoff. The spell had been broken, the unseen Guide had tested , and she could take it. From that time on publishers made a beaten path to her door. Money came so
fast she hardly had time to count it. Then the moving picture men discovered her, and money came not in small change, but in floods. The moving picture rights to her latest novel,
brought $100,000.00, said to be the highest price ever paid for a story before publication. Her royalties from the sale of the book probably will run much more. Briefly, you have a description of what persistence is capable of achieving. Wherever men and women accumulate great riches, you may be sure they first had to acquire PERSISTENCE. Broadway will give any beggar a cup of coffee and a sandwich, but it demands persistence of those who go after the big stakes. I hope that you have learned something from this womans story,that will help you to stay persistent and  focused whatever you are going to achieve in life.  In part three ,I will give you 8 factors of persistence that will help you to define which of them you lack. And then the analysis may lead to discoveries that will give you a new grip on yourself.

Can you develop the necessary “money consciousness.” POVERTY is attracted to the one whose mind is favorable to it, as money is attracted to him whose mind has been deliberately
prepared to attract it, and through the same laws. Poverty consciousness will voluntarily seize the mind which is not occupied with the money consciousness. A poverty consciousness develops without conscious application of habits favorable to it. The money consciousness must be created to order, unless one is born with such a consciousness. Catch the full significance of the statements  and you will understand the importance of persistence in the accumulation of a fortune. Without persistence, you will be defeated, even before you start. With persistence you will win.
If you have ever experienced a nightmare, you will realize the value of persistence. You are lying in bed, half awake, with a feeling that you are about to smother. You are unable to turn over, or to move a muscle. You realize that you must begin to regain control over your muscles. Through persistent effort of will-power, you finally manage to move the fingers of one hand. By continuing to move your fingers, you extend your control to the muscles of one arm, until you can lift it. Then you gain control of the other arm in the same manner. You finally gain control over the muscles of one leg, and then extend it to the other leg. Then with one supreme effort of– WILL you regain complete control over your muscular system, and “snap” out of your nightmare. The trick has been turned step by step.
You may find it necessary to “snap” out of your mental inertia,through a similar procedure, moving slowly at first, then increasing your speed, until you gain complete control over your will. Be persistence no matter how slowly you may, at first, have to move. with persistence will come success. Some men who have accumulated great fortunes,developed the habit of persistence,because they were so closely driven by circumstances, that they had to become persistent. There is no substitute for persistence! It cannot be supplanted by any other quality! Remember this, and it will hearten you, in the beginning, when the going may seem difficult and slow.
Those who have cultivated the habit of persistence seem to enjoy insurance against failure. No matter how many times you are defeated, you finally arrive up toward the top of the ladder.
Sometimes it appears that there is a hidden Guide whose duty is to test men through all sorts of discouraging experiences. Those who pick themselves up after defeat and keep on trying, arrive; and the world cries, “Bravo! I knew you could do it!” The hidden Guide lets no one enjoy great achievement without passing the persistence test. Those who can’t take it, simply do not make the grade. Those who can “take it” are bountifully rewarded for their persistence. They receive, as their compensation, whatever goal they are pursuing. I hope that you ‘ll never give up but always stay PERSISTENT.

I heard somebody speaking of crisis being “opportunity riding a dangerous wind. I know that  problems are normal precursors to change.  As I always say, you show me a problem and I’ll show you change attempting to occur. But I had  to learn to step back from “problems” to see the larger picture, to appreciate the change that is trying to happen, trying to see what opportunities the change will bring.

Did you know that the telephone was invented in response to a family crisis.  The guy had started work on a project to help his deaf sister and invented the phone which has helped all humanity.

These ways of viewing situations are not focusing on it, not creating more of it as the law of attraction suggests, rather of having a positive response, a trusting response – see the situation, realize there is opportunity, trust that – God, the universe, the law of attraction, or however you choose to see the forces, will bring it – and then “ride the dangerous wind.”  It is an exciting process when viewed that way – riding the dangerous wind, catching the biggest wave with your surf board, soaring on the warm currents to great heights in your hang glider, pulling back and seeing the beauty of the whole and not just the imperfection of the close up on the problem.  On the other hand, to only look at what is, and only envision a crash, does not allow opportunity to express itself and it denies you the enjoyment of the moment.

Listen what  John D.Rockefeller had to say about disaster “I always tried to turn every disaster into opportunity”. If  only we could acquire this great understanding,how much better our life’s would be, or though nothing is changing around us,only the way we look at things and how much more peace we would posses. And from being sad,disappointed  and negative that things didn’t go the way we want, we would get exited . I myself  have started to practice this understanding about 8 years ago,and from my experience I can say honestly,that there is no better way how to fight,when disaster strikes or anything that you don’t want in your life.

It is no use to desire a thing unless you expect to get it, either in part or in full. Desire without expectation is idle wishing or dreaming. You simply waste much valuable
mental energy in doing this. Desire will put you in touch with the inner world of cause and connect you by invisible means with the substance of the thing desired; then,
continuous expectation is necessary to bring it into a reality in your life. Much like the pull of gravitation in the physical realm, ?expectation? is a drawing force of the mind
which acts in the invisible realm.When you desire something you must honestly expect to receive it. I like what Jesus said here” You can pray for anything and if you believe,you will have it,all that’s required is that you really believe and do not doubt in your hart” Can you see yourself at this place of receiving, can you see the end from the beginning?
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If you will apply all these principles, riches  will follow you.

1. Positive mental attitude.

2. Sound physical health.

3. Harmony in human relations.

4. Freedom from Fear.

5. The hope of future achievement.

6. The capacity for applied faith

7. Willingness to share your blessings with others.

8. To be engaged in a labor of love.

9. An open mind to all subjects toward all people.

10. Complete self discipline.

11. Wisdom with which to understand people.

12. Financial security.

My dictionary tells me that to risk is “to expose oneself to the chance of loss.” I suppose that is true. Another piece of literature I was once given (author unknown) suggests that:

To laugh is to risk appearing the fool. To try is to risk failure. To weep is to risk appearing sentimental. To reach out for another is to risk involvement. To expose feelings is to risk exposing your true self. To place your ideas, your dreams, before a crowd is to risk their loss.
To love is to risk not being loved in return. To live is to risk dying. To hope is to risk despair.
You may avoid suffering and sorrow if you don’t risk, but you simply cannot learn, feel, change,grow, love, live. The greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing, does
nothing and has nothing. Only a person who risks is free. What causes individuals to shy away from taking a risk, even if it is a low risk and will give them
something they really want? Well, certainly high on most people’s list would be fear of loss,failure and perceived humiliation if the loss were to occur. Why would we automatically think that
we would fail at something? Why wouldn’t we first try and see, and then if we did fail, learn from that experience and move on?
I believe it dates back to our little life. And, since risk-taking, to my knowledge, is not a subject that is taught in school, it would lead me to believe that a person’s fear of taking risks might stem back from before they can even remember. When you were a child taking your very first steps, it wasn’t uncommon to hear one of your parents or guardians say, “Be careful, you might
fall.” Or, “Don’t do that, you’ll ….” Though some of this is rhetoric and you don’t really pay much attention to it, for some, it begins the pattern of playing it safe.
Think of how much better equipped we would be to face life’s challenges and succeed, if we had repetitively heard, “Take a chance and don’t worry about falling, because you’re going to fall …
probably quite often. Falling is an important part of learning.” Many of the greatest lessons you’ll receive in life are going to come from falling … from your failures.
Failing will never make you a failure unless you quit.  I have often said that a little baby is a natural born risk taker. The baby never considers the consequences of falling when it is learning to walk.

Falling is acknowledged as a natural consequence to learning to walk.
Why is it that we do not see the process of reaching our goals as having steps similar to the ones the
baby must take in order to learn to walk? There will be some stumbling and falling in the learning process, but success can only be reached when we are prepared to take those steps, all of them,
even the ones where we may fall down.
While we’re still on the topic of children, I’ll throw up another caution flag. There’s a four letter
word that most parents use around their children so frequently, that the children pick it up and before too long it is buried in the treasury of their sub-conscious mind. That four letter word is
CAN’T. This word has done more damage than a lot of other frowned-upon four letter words put together. I know of some forward-thinking parents who have literally banned that word from their
children’s vocabulary! Can’t is a word that paralyzes any constructive progress. It switches your mind into a negative frequency.
practical reasons which will enable you to justify why you are not able to do something you sincerely want to accomplish. The only alternative to that four-letter word is its polar opposite – I CAN.

I can is far more important than IQ. You don’t necessarily have to be very smart to win … but you must be willing. Reaching the goal is not success; success is moving toward the goal. Taking risks is essential when you want to reach a goal and the purpose of goals is growth. When you challenge yourself, you bring more of yourself to the surface.  If you dream of living your life in a really big way, you must accept risk-taking as a very real part
of the apprenticeship you must serve. Make a decision right now to change. Decide this very moment there will be no more playing it safe … no more “saving it for a rainy day” type thinking
in your life. When people get caught up in the habit of saving for a rainy day, that is generally what they get … a rainy day. Somebody was telling me a story about a farmer
who was out walking in a field. He looked down and saw a tiny pumpkin growing on a vine. Nearby, he spotted a small glass jar. The farmer reached down and placed the tiny pumpkin inside
the small jar. The pumpkin continued to grow until it filled the inside of the jar. Beyond which it could not grow. There are a number of people like that tiny pumpkin. They limit themselves and refuse to take a
risk. They never truly test the strength of their abilities. You will never get to second base if you keep one foot on first. Too many people go through their entire lives playing their cards close to
their chest. They never step out and bet on the surest thing in the world … themselves. If you hope to accumulate great wealth or achieve high goals, history records that the first few steps
have a high degree of risk. You must turn your back on safety and security. To make it big, you must take big risks. You will very likely have to put yourself in a highly vulnerable position. It is
also worth remembering you cannot almost take a risk. Eleanor Roosevelt said, “You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which
you really stop to look fear in the face.” Follow her advice and liberate yourself from the crippling emotional state of fear and enter into a world of freedom.

Everyone enjoys doing the kind of work for which he is best suited. An artist loves to work with paints, a craftsman with his
hands, a writer loves to write. Those with less definite talents have their preferences for certain fields of business and industry.

First. Decide EXACTLY what kind of a job you want. If the job doesn’t already exist, perhaps you can create it.

Second. Choose the company, or individual for whom you wish to work.
Third. Study your prospective employer, as to policies,personnel, and chances of advancement.
Fourth. By analysis of yourself, your talents and capabilities, figure WHAT YOU CAN OFFER, and plan ways and
means of giving advantages, services, developments, ideas that you believe you can successfully deliver.
Fifth. Forget about “a job.” Forget whether or not there is an opening. Forget the usual routine of “have you got a job for
me?” Concentrate on what you can give.

Sixth. Once you have your plan in mind, arrange with an experienced writer to put it on paper in neat form, and in full detail.
Seventh. Present it to the proper person with authority and he will do the rest. Every company is looking for men who can
give something of value, whether it be ideas, services, or “connections.” Every company has room for the man who has a
definite plan of action which is to the advantage of that company.

This line of procedure may take a few days or weeks of extra time, but the difference in income, in advancement, and in gaining
recognition will save years of hard work at small pay. It has many advantages, the main one being that it will often save from one to
five years of time in reaching a chosen goal. Every person who starts, or “gets in” half way up the ladder,
does so by deliberate and careful planning.

I want to live with greater inspiration. Any ideas?

Somebody calls it your ultimate calling. I call it your birthright. But no matter who you talk to about the subject who has given it considerable thought: One thing’s for sure. Anyone

can live with more inspiration.I’m not sure anyone really knows when inspiration will show up —I certainly don’t. However, when it does, it’s an unstoppable force. It’s something that happens within us that is so exciting that we couldn’t stop it, even if we wanted to. For many years, I was very inspired in my writing. Virtually every day, it was as if thoughts would come to me—I never had to go to them. It was inspiration in action. Then, for a few years it stopped. I still

enjoyed writing, but it wasn’t quite the same.About half a year ago, I

had a blast of inspiration that I couldn’t let go of—it came over me as light dominates the day hours. It appeared, as if out of the blue.

As I paid attention to my new inspiration, it was telling me what to write about.

At any rate, the way to tell

if you are working or playing with inspiration is that there is essentially no effort involved. It’s something you feel you must do—you are being called to

do it. It’s fun, rewarding, relaxing, and enjoyable. It doesn’t feel like “work” even though from a technical sense, it could be.

You can think of others who you may think of as sources of inspiration—those who work for fun and love their life. Money may come easily to these people, but it is never their primary motivation. They are generally childlike (not childish), they love to play, are content being an expert or a beginner, and love to share their gifts with others—although they have no attachment to the same. In short, they are virtually ego-less, and fun to be around. They radiate joy and happiness, and virtually never gripe about their life—they are too busy enjoying it. If you know people like this, spend as much time as you can being around them and learning from them.

The trick, I believe to tapping into your own inspiration, is to first understand that it exists.

See if you can think about times when you worked or played from a space of inspiration. I’ll bet you have. Like the time you were building something and it seemed to build itself, or the time you were working on a project and it seemed like it finished without you. You were involved, of course, but almost as an observer rather than a participant. It was essentially effortless. Then, once you are convinced you have it in you, you simply have to have the faith that it will show up, or emerge in your life, and sure enough, it will.

Sometimes, your inspiration will show up almost immediately, as if it follows your commands. Other times, you must wait until the inspiration, which almost has a mind of its own, decides to take over. It doesn’t really matter, however, as once you are engaged, you will realize you are in perfect harmony with what you are here to do.

There appear to be four very simple steps to take in order to connect with your own source of inspiration. First, know that it exists. Look for evidence in yourself and in others. When you find it, marvel at its beauty and simplicity. Second, want it. Say to yourself and even out loud, “I want to be more inspired.” Third, see the connections around you. When a certain person shows up in your life, or some strong potential signal, pay attention.

It is likely a clue that will lead you to inspiration. Fourth and finally, when it shows up, go with it, even if it doesn’t make sense in a logical way. You may be inspired to write—even thought you’re not a writer. So what, write anyway. Or, you may feel inspired to read certain kinds of books or paint pictures, make a new friend, or whatever. Whatever it is, listen to the clues and take a chance. Chances are, you’re engaging in inspiration and what a joy it will be!

1. Have a mind that is open to everything and attached to nothing.

2. Don’t worry what other people think or say about you,because you don’t have control over that. Only thing you have control over is your character.

3. You can’t give away what you don’t have.

4. Embrace silence.

5. Give up your personal history.

6. You can’t solve a problem with the same mind that created it. If you  change your mind,you’ll solve your problem.

7. There are no justified resentments.

8. Treat yourself as if you already are what you’d like to be.

9. Treasure your divinity.

10. Wisdom is avoiding all thoughts that weaken you.

11. If what you give is self-respect and self  love,the Universe will return the same.

12. Always be in the service of others. It doesn’t matter what you do as long as you are able to give.

And you can only give away what do you have.

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It doesn’t matter how you think you arrived here on this planet or under whose direction – the fact remains that each of us has specific talents and gifts that are uniquely coded within our own DNA. As you go through life, you don’t just pick up things you like doing by chance. You discover what you’re good at because you were meant to discover it, just as you were meant to figure out what your fingers do, and how your elbows work. Your unique gifts are hard-wired into your system just as surely as your lungs are given their blueprint to breathe. And it’s from these specific talents and gifts that you’re able to define and determine your definite purpose … the reason why you’re here. What’s in you cannot be found in another living human being. In fact, it’s quite possible that what you bring to the table hasn’t been duplicated – ever –since time began. If you fail to determine your definite purpose, everything else is wrong. It’s like working with a broken compass – you think you’re going North, but you’re not. You’re not sure which direction you’re heading, so, you’re just wandering aimlessly. It’s imperative, then, that you recognize what it is you’re good at – what it is you really love to do. Your purpose in this lifetime is to do the thing you love. Many people will tell me that they know what they’re good at, and what they love to do most, but they’ll never earn money with it. Whoever gave you THAT idea? You can earn money at ANYTHING. Once you determine your purpose, you won’t even have to think hard on HOW to earn money – it’s as if you’re being guided by an unseen hand. Everything falls into place. Nor are you going to find yourself digging around for ambition to achieve your purpose. When you truly start doing what you love, it’s like being 12-years-old again, waking up to your first glorious day of summer vacation. You’re loaded with ambition. Did the weather change? Did the sun rise several hours sooner? No. The only entity that changed between the last day of school and the first day of summer vacation was YOU. In similar fashion, acting on your purpose pushes your ambition through the ROOF. Nobody knows your gifts better than you I don’t care what your parents, guardians, teachers, bosses, and best friends have said about you in the past … and neither should you as you seek out your purpose. Understand that negative images have been crowding your mind since birth. And, you’ve had failings in your life. But when we fail, it’s not a fault issue – we simply had no harmony with what we were trying to do. The masses out there like to lump things into failure.  The masses are obsessed with conformity rather than creativity. Don’t listen to them. You must recognize the unique gift of you. You’re an individualized, phenomenal expression of life. The gifts within you were programmed to SING in a spotlight on center stage! The performance you do from that stage … that’s your life’s purpose.
5 Tips To Increase Your Desire To Discover The Purpose For Your Life.

1.“If you’re not ready to die for it, put the word ‘freedom’ out of your vocabulary.”

2.“Man is only truly great when he acts from his passions.”

3.“Two men look out the same prison bars; one sees mud and the other stars.” What do you see?

4.“The difference between the impossible and the possible lies in a person’s determination.”

How badly do you want to see your desires came true ?

5.“Limits, like fears, are often just an illusion”.

Discern Who Responds Most To You:
If you are going to accomplish your Dreams, it will take the assistance
of others to do it.
Make reference to your Dream in telephone conversations when
appropriate. When your friends request a gift list from you, give them a
gift idea linked to the completion of your Dream.
Your own passion for your Dream will increase as you communicate
the importance of your Dream to others. Your family and friends will
become familiar with your Future and want to help you obtain your
Dream.
Few friends will remain in your life forever. Friendships are usually
seasonal… depending on your pursuit and convenience. Do not waste
your energy on friendships that do not energize your life.
Those who admire your Dream will want to participate and become
involved. When you want to go fishing, those who love fishing will come.
When you want to see a movie, those who love movies will want to go
with you.
Relationships will always change relative to your focus and passion.
My dear friend, Sherman Owens, taught me to, “Listen to unhappy
people for ideas.” This is so important. Everybody hurts somewhere.
Some hide it. Some express it.
However, when you begin to listen to the pain around you, ideas will
emerge for solving that pain. Those solutions bring rewards. Your solution
will create a friendship.
Your Dream Must Be Personal. It is essential that you discover your
Dream and give yourself totally to it. “Let every man abide in the same
calling wherein he was called,” (1 Corinthians 7:20).

It is a useless waste of time to pursue what others have in mind for
your life. God has a plan.
God is not a respecter of persons. He created you for a special time
and season.

He created you for a specific purpose. However, your own choices will determine your destiny.

• Your Dream will struggle to live… like a rose in a garden of weeds .

• Your Dream will sometimes struggle to receive sunshine… in a world of darkness.

• Your Dream will thirst for water… among the thorns of frustration.

When your battle is the most difficult, that is
usually an indication that you are at the very scene
of the fulfillment of your Dream.