Unlock The Path To Self-Growth When Everything Falls Apart.

We often have the perception that self-growth will be simple, enjoyable, and rewarding. It certainly can be, but there is also another aspect of the self-growth journey that is rarely mentioned. And that is, when everything falls apart.So, how do we deal with the pain and fear when everything falls apart? Our first reaction might be to run away to avoid feeling the pain. Another reaction might be to try and put everything back the way it was before it fell apart. But doing so only delays the process. Remember that the destruction is necessary in order to make room for the rebuilding of something better
When everything falls apart, pay special attention to the exact circumstances that have begun deteriorating. This gives you a big clue about the biggest lies (limiting beliefs you have formed) about yourself, and your life. Look for the connection between the blockages you are dissolving, and the circumstances that are coming apart at the seams. For example, if you have begun exploring your true talents and abilities, and then you suddenly lose your job, a little introspection may help you to realize that your job didn’t allow you to use those talents and abilities, so it needed to be removed to make way for a more fulfilling career. Sometimes the connections can be a little more vague and you may have to dig a little deeper. It may take some time to fully understand how everything is related, but if you keep at it, you will come to understand it and you can then use that knowledge to rebuild something better.This isn’t an easy process by any means. But it is oh so fulfilling and exhilarating if we embrace it and allow it to happen without fighting against the pain and fear. Through our trials and challenges come new levels of growth, wisdom, and inner strength beyond our wildest dreams. We just need to stay with the process and watch for the rainbows after the storm. So,self- growth is not escapism; and real knowledge is not in big words and philosophies; real knowledge is a daily experience of life. As James Allen observed “it is a common error to suppose that the Higher Life is a matter of reading and the adoption of theology or metaphysical hypothesis and that spiritual principles can be understood by this method. The Higher Life is a higher living in thought, word and deed, and the knowledge of these spiritual principles which are imminent in man and in the universe can only be acquired after long discipline in the pursuit and practice of virtue.” True philosophy is one that crystallizes in deed and in a truly mastered life; every other commitment is vain and only serves to deceive the simple.
There is no justification in seeking after the “higher truth” when you despise and therefore not apply yourself to the truth you currently know. There is a sense in which truth is synthetic; a mind that cannot comprehend the simple wisdom of life is incapable of handling the deeper mysteries of destiny. As they say, it is only when the student is ready that the master appears; it is only when you prove yourself worthy in the ordinary obligations of life that you will be given charge over the great responsibilities that await disciplined and virtuous souls.

I invite you to conduct a growth commitment self test; how long have you been on this journey of growth and awareness? What is your true motivation on this journey? What are some of the things you have learned along the way? How many of these things are you practicing in your life right now?

You see, you will not be able to get the “big” revelations if you neglect the simple wisdom of everyday life. You cannot be entrusted with the riches of heaven if you prove unfaithful with the possessions of mortality; there is only one way from childhood to adulthood – it is the way of growth. The urgent call for you is this: do the Word. The wisdom of life is in thought, word and deed; nothing less. When duty calls, do not be found wanting; be counted among those worthy to stay the course and obtain the treasures of heaven.

In the final analysis, if you discover your True Calling in Life, and Choose to Follow your Passion – Realistically, you may not be in the ranks of the Rich and Famous. So, what is more important in the long run – Money, Status, Security, Comfort, or fulfilling yourself through following your True Passion?

We all have a choice; one can live his life and not question his existence, or choose to examine his life. We do not have to seek out our own mission and purpose, nor live our lives True to our own Hearts.

But, an important question to ask ourselves is this – If we do not Aspire to be all we were put on this earth to be, will we have truly lived our lives in the best possible way? At the end of our lives, will we feel we have lived our lives to the fullest? Will we be satisfied with our accomplishments and what we contributed to the planet, and be a willing participant transitioning to the Great Beyond?

In other words, if you finally feel that you have fulfilled your purpose here, what more is there to do, but leave this earth when you are called upon to do so? When it is your time to pass away, will you have done everything you wanted to do with your life?

We only get one chance at living. We only have one chance to do our lives right. That is it. This is the reason why you should put your heart into all you do, and to make certain you choose to do only those things you have the passion for. While you are still alive, you have the chance to complete your life on earth. Do it with all your heart, so there will be no regrets. Find your Dreams, and then pursue them – This may be the only thing you do that you will not regret.